A lot of people in the States are surprised when I tell them that I have only 5 cousins. In turn, they’ll tell me they have 10 or 12, sometimes quite a few more. I never really thought my family was all that unusual, but hearing about families here in Africa is a whole different ballgame.

First, most everyone I have met have several (think 7 or more) siblings. Their spouses have the same amount. Then those siblings usually all have kids, most often several. You can see how quickly that adds up! In addition, families typically live very close to each other. Therefore, cousins grow up as siblings & aunts and uncles often function as second (and third, and fourth) sets of parents. The family works as a team to instill culture, values, and norms in the children.

Alright. So we have the blood relatives. Then, add some non-blood relatives into the mix. Many places you automatically become relatives after getting to know the family well. For example, during my urban homestay I became family right away. My host sister’s son has been lovingly calling me “Auntie” all week.

It is interesting to observe the dynamics of Namibian families. As I type this in my bedroom, there are several cousins running around outside playing basketball, a couple aunts chatting over “cold drink” (a southern African phrase for what is usually a soda), and uncles chatting in the corner: just a typical Saturday in Windhoek.

You might have guessed by now that I am really interested in the eating habits of people around the world (I’ve only posted about it 3 times!). Namibia is no exception. From my experience, South African and Namibian food is blander than American food. That is not to say that it doesn’t have flavor, it is just that the flavors are on a smaller scale with fewer extremes. In my opinion, food here tastes more “natural” somehow. Things in general are less processed. It is not unusual to pet a chicken in the morning and the eat it for dinner.

Fatcakes on the top, then macaroni salad, fish, and potato salad – all homemade by my host mom!

I’ve found that many people here don’t let many things go to waste. It is not unusual for people to eat every part of the chicken, including the feet and insides. Luckily people are also very understanding that those parts are not in the typical American diet.

I have also found some of my favorite foods here. I mentioned in an earlier post about the amazing ice cream. I have also had some delicious stews and potato dishes. Just the other night my host-sister and I made something that was a cross between a French fry (called “chips” here) and a potato chip (called “crisps” or “crispies”) by slicing potatoes into coins and frying them in oil. YUM!

One last comment about food: THERE IS A LOT OF IT! Especially at my homestays, I was stuffed full at all hours of the day. During my Soweto homestay, there were a couple times where I was having multiple lunches and multiple dinners in the same day. People love to cook for guests and serving food is one of the ways people welcome you into their home. You’ll never go hungry at a homestay!

The chocolate chip cookies I made for my Urban Homestay family. Very yummy, despite having to alter some ingredients.

Whenever I’ve been abroad and staying with a host family, I have found that it is a good idea to bring along some of my favorite recipes. I have done it with past trips to France and Germany, and now to Namibia. Host families enjoy getting a little glimpse into the culinary aspect of American culture.

Five things to remember when cooking for your host families in Namibia:

1.) Not all of the same ingredients are available – avoid recipes with bizarre ingredients or recipes that require very specific name brands; get creative if things can be flexible (ex: there are no chocolate chips, but a chopped up chocolate bar works just as well)

2.) Accommodate cultural norms – Namibian meals are not complete without meat & vegetarianism is not widely understood. If you’re planning vegetarian meals (like me), be sure that there is a way to add meat to them for your host family, such as adding (a lot of) browned ground beef to a sauce or perhaps cooking an entirely separate meat dish in addition to your planned dish. Sometimes it works to do a dish with half meat, half vegetarian (think pizza).

3.) Cook with your host family whenever possible – this goes for the food that you are making and the food they make

4.) Bring a variety of dishes – main courses, salads, soups, sides, and desserts

5.) Don’t be offended if your meals are not outwardly well-received – some Namibians don’t care for very sweet things, but they will be glad that you put forth the effort to make something for them

**Helpful hint (that I wish I would have thought of before): Have recipes converted into metric units prior to trying to make them!

Some ideas for American recipes to make: Rice Krispy Treats, chocolate chip cookies, homemade macaroni & cheese, no-bake cookies, lasagna, brownies, French toast, pizza, homemade French fries, apple pie, American chop-suey, Shepard’s Pie, chicken parmesan

Bon appétit!