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Date: October 5, 2010

Morocco Exchange, I met my Morrocan self

Of all the things I could write about after my time in Morocco I would have to choose my meeting Zakaria, a Muslim from Tangiers about my age and stage in life. Our first stop was to meet him and Kawtar, an assistant at a Women’s center, to sit down over tea (very, very good mint tea) and have a discussion about our cultures. Our group of 15 began a hold-nothing-back conversation on Islamic/Arabic and American stereotypes, the veil, and politics, and we ended up focusing a lot on marriage.

Things got pretty interesting when Zakaria and Kawtar disagreed on many fronts and weren’t afraid to say so, or even argue heatedly in front of us! That’s one thing about Moroccans, they can disagree about something and still get along great. In this instance, Kawtar wore a veil, but was generally liberal in her view of Islam and in her beliefs on gender roles in marriage. As we continued, Zakaria, a more conservative fellow, but not over the edge, defended his view of husbands, wives and arranged marriage.

Kawtar and Zakaria

Although initially masked by our presuppositions of arranged marriage, I was able to see past stereotypes to see that Zakaria’s desire for arranged marriage was not for the sake of being traditional or controlling, but with the belief in and intent of creating husbands and wives that are committed to loving each other and raising their children well. He could have used the word love a little more in my opinion (it also would have made him sound a little better to our group of mostly girls, I think), but I felt a great agreement come upon me when I began to see what he desired and how much I desired the same for my fellow Christians. Among other things, I had noticed just how similar Zakaria was to me in his personality and in the way he spoke of his faith. It was like I had met a Moroccan John Webster. So later, after our group discussion I went up to him and we ended up in a friendly but intense discussion of Islam, Christianity, and Jesus. Wow! I was really happy we were both so interested and willing to share our beliefs with each other. I was dumbfounded by how similar Islam appears to be to Christianity. Just the way he spoke about his faith was very similar to the way I do, just substitute the Allah for Jesus. One small change that changes everything.

Rather than go down the rabbit hole into this discussion, I only wish to share just how surprised I was to meet someone that should have been more different from me than anyone I had ever met, only to find that he was more similar to me than most of the people in my group of Americans. And I’m not just talking faith, this guy likes skiing (yes, in Morocco) and action movies too.

A place that leaves you speechless

Norway. Never a country that I thought I was going to visit when I first explored studying abroad. When I met my cousin from Norway as a senior in high school, my mind changed completely. Coming to Germany this fall, my main goal was to find a time that I could cross the sea and make it to the very long country to meet my extended family for the first time. After some coordination, we got it to work. And I could not have asked for anything more. To describe the scenery in a blog does not do it justice. There are utterly no words that I could type that could remotely get you to understand the euphoric state of mind I was in the entire weekend. If you want a truly humbling experience, take some time and travel to the most beautiful place on earth… Norway.

Our roadtrip through the mountains

The water was so blue and clear… tasted great!

Matt and I overlooking the mountains

One of the many waterfalls along the trip

Now my family I can talk about. I was extremely nervous and overwhelmed when we pulled back into the driveway after our two day roadtrip to find about 15 family members standing there. So many people came up to me to shake my hand; they all introduced themselves, but Norwegian names are very difficult to pronounce! After going inside, we had dinner and talked for hours. I was so blessed to know that this many family members wanted to meet me. They were all so kind and engaging. I couldn’t have asked for anything more. There is nothing better than coming home from the most beautiful scenery to meet the most beautiful people. I hope now that I can go back to Norway since I cannot imagine living without these family connections in this gorgeous country.

All of my wonderful Norwegian family

One of the most memorable experiences was meeting my cousin’s girlfriend’s son, Leander. He was almost 3 years old, and we bonded because we didn’t need language. After a few hours of playing with Buzz Lightyear and Lego planes, we became the best of friends. He learned my name right away and came to give me a big hug before he had to go home to bed. On Sunday, we all had lunch together and then had to say goodbye. As we both pulled out of the driveway in different vehicles, Stein (my cousin) stopped the car because Leander was crying. Tor (my other cousin) pulled up alongside to see what was wrong, and Leander felt like he hadn’t said enough goodbyes to me. That was enough to almost make me cry.

I love my family. Hopefully one day I will be making the long trek back to Norway to experience even more of the country and even more family dinners.

Five Important Things to do Before You Travel

Planning a trip can seem somewhat daunting at times, especially if you’re traveling to a new country for the very first time. If you plan accordingly, however, you are guaranteed to get a much better experience out of it. And no matter how many hours of research you end up doing beforehand, it will be worth every second of it once you arrive at your destination. Based on my travels so far, here’s a list of the five important things to research or do before you depart:

1) Transportation – It’s not even worth mentioning you need to figure out how to get to the airport from your own house, but it’s important to research the best ways to travel to your hostel, hotel or friend’s house from the airport you’re flying into. It’s easy just to wave down a taxi outside the airport, but if you’re traveling by yourself or in a small group, there are often cheaper options. It’s not a bad idea to check if there are any buses or trains leaving from the airport towards the place you need to be. Most airports provide bus or train services for a relatively cheap price.

2) Contact Information – in case of emergency, it’s always good to make sure someone from back home knows where you are staying in whatever country you may be traveling to. The chances of your flight being cancelled may be slim, but in case an emergency does arise, such as Eyjafjallajökull (the Iceland volcano no one can pronounce) earlier this year, it’s important your friends or family from back home know where you are.

3) Communication – To go along with the second point, it’s vital to have at least some form of communication while you are traveling. Not all hostels provide internet access so it isn’t a bad idea to have a phone on you. I found that extremely helpful when I travelled to Munich with four of my friends. At times it’s easy to get lost or separated from your friends, and without a phone, it can be a nightmare trying to locate other members of your group. Lastly, if you do have a phone, make you sure find out what the country code is where you are so you can make calls. Here’s a list of country calling codes: http://www.countrycallingcodes.com/countrylist.php

4) Attractions – I can speak from experience when I say it’s a terrible idea to fly to a new country without any real idea of what you want to see or do while you are there. If you research what type of attractions your country has to offer you’ll be able to pick and choose what you want to do ahead of time, ensuring you get the most out of your visit and experience as much of the culture as you possibly can. The internet is full of information of what to do and see in various countries, and if that doesn’t suffice, most book stores contain travel guides for specific countries, even cities. Also, bring a map of the city in order to help you get around from place to place.

5) Budget – Some countries cost more than others and it’s safe to say that food, drinks, accommodation and the price of tourist attractions varies in each country. Do a little research beforehand so you can have a good idea of how much money you think you’ll need to spend during your travels. It’s always good to have an idea of how much things will cost so you’re not overwhelmed when you get there.

The list is by no means conclusive, but it can be a good start for anyone embarking on a trip to a new country. Most importantly, have fun and take full advantage of being in a place some people still dream of going to.

Cheers!

Time to prove yourself

I ran with the Cambridge cross country club this morning. The pack leader looks at me and asks, “So you’re a half-miler yeah?”

I reply, “Yes, I run the half-mile and mile.” A hush fell over the group, which consisted mainly of 5k and 10k road runners and half-marathoners. After about a minute of silence the pack leader turns to me and asks, “Can you hold your distance?” in the same tone of voice senior fraternity brother would ask a pledge, “Can you hold your liquor?”

I replied in a cowboy accent, “Damn straight.”

“Good lad,” he smirked and we floored it for the remaining five miles.

All before my first class this morning.

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