On June 30th, I visited LSSI’s Sterling Addiction Center, Sterling Group Home, and the Nachusa Lutheran Home campus, and I could not be more grateful to have the day trip that brought a lot of perspective to what I have been writing about. It would be no surprise to anyone that non-profit organizations can struggle, even in the simplest ways. But when you start to see these struggles in application, it really changes what you thought you knew.
On July 14th, I visited Bethel Christian Church in south Chicago, delivering new and exciting books for LSSI’s Visits to Mom program where families of incarcerated women are taken on a 3 hour drive to their moms, friends, and daughters. I talked to the main coordinator and he opened up about his passion for the job, staying connected with the community, and being excited to push his innovative ideas further.
Something that has really, pleasantly, stood out to me about this experience has been the staff camaraderie and endless amount of support they provide to one another. Behind each other’s backs, they say how wonderful individuals are doing, giving credit to the work that they are doing, and are in awe of the capacity to do their jobs well. I am starting to understand how noticeably powerful this mindset is to any occupation, but more importantly, for this non-profit organization that is constantly providing services to a wide variety of people.
As a psychology and sociology major working in communications, I have discovered a new perspective for the position I never could have realized until becoming fully immersed in the experience. I have learned so much about myself in the office life, but more importantly, the professional characteristics I value. Honesty. Trust. Hard work. Support.
In addition to my fellowship experience, I have been doing a lot of soul-searching. A navigation through the thick weeds, daunting questions at the forefront of my mind: who do I want to be? But also, what do I need to do to get there? Time and time again, I am reminded that life doesn’t always turn out the way that you planned. Cheesy, I know. And as much as a planner as I am, I can see something beautiful in that. Something beautiful in the idea of things happening naturally, perhaps not the way your tedious mind had expected. I thought I would be at a minimum wage job, dealing with a variety of interesting customers until I couldn’t see straight this summer. And then that beautiful thing happened: this fellowship. I’m working for a non-profit that I believe in, that I see helping real people with extraordinary stories. I see its employees going above and beyond supporting one another and going forthright with their tasks to do the programs justice. The clients justice.
At Valpo, the students are highly ambitious and it can be intimidating to go on your own path. There is so much value in the soft skills that we don’t celebrate enough, don’t talk about enough. At the end of the day, we have to be ourselves to its full capacity. We deserve that, whatever that looks like. Pursuing and standing up for things that we believe in, and building connections with people that make us better. We have to question our perceptions and embrace the things that make us unique. I say these things as a reminder for you, but also to myself. I’m trying. I’m soaking up every moment that is to learn from, and finding myself along the way.