Monthly Archives: May 2025

We don’t need to put on a cape to transform lives

My first week of internship at Opportunity Enterprises was successfully completed this Friday and I am already looking forward to coming back after the weekend! Opportunity Enterprises offers inclusive opportunities for work, transportation, leisure, among other opportunities, for people of all abilities, opening doors to a more equitable and fairer world. In this first week I met incredible people, felt extremely welcome, felt a good sense of home, and learned valuable lessons.
This first week of training included several lessons, such as First Aid (CPR) and Crisis Prevention (CPI), which are essential for ensuring the well-being of the children who will be spending the summer with us. However, what was most significant for me was learning about the company’s history, how it arose and why. For many years, people with disabilities were neglected, excluded and mistreated, kept in isolation within institutions with no intention of re-socialization and under abusive “treatments”. Today they are seen as the human beings they are, they are valued and receive humane treatment because in the past there were people who advocated and fought for their rights. It comforts my heart to see that despite established social norms, human beings are capable of empathizing, fighting for others and transforming lives!
Every day since I got this internship through CAPS, I’ve become more certain that my calling in the field of psychology is to transform lives. We all study so that one day we will have the opportunity to apply theory to reality, but there are some skills that only experience teaches, and I can’t wait to get to know them and learn them. The next two weeks of the internship will be specific training in which I will learn the responsibilities of the position, and it will certainly be two weeks of a lot of learning and preparation. Then the summer camp and the real experience will begin, which I’m really looking forward to!
One of the reflections I made this week was that we don’t need to be heroes and wear capes to transform a life, small acts make more of a difference than we usually think. Every single person at Opportunity Enterprises manages in their own particular way to transform the lives of the people they work for, from the maintenance worker to the counselor who works directly with clients, because their efforts in their specific role are what make the company work and provide the values and mission it believes in. Even if you’re not part of an inclusive environment, you can do small things to make someone’s world more inclusive and have a big positive impact on their life.
I want to be a person who makes a difference in the world, I believe that my purpose in the field of psychology is to serve, to provide support for those who need it, from a “Good morning!” to emotional or physical help. I look to my future and I can’t see myself doing anything other than promoting help, support, equality and growth for all. That is my purpose.
Larissa Pina, Camp Lakeside

Caps and Gowns…and Callings

On a basement bookshelf of my home sits a framed photograph I’d forgotten about until recently. In that picture, I’m beaming in cap and gown, flanked on either side by my smiling parents as we stand in the backyard garden of a former landlord’s property. That day was muggy and hot (not surprising for May in South Carolina), and I remember my nervous anticipation on that celebratory afternoon–the kind of feeling where you’re not sure if your stomach is buoyed with breathless excitement or clenched in apprehension…or, more likely, both. Either way, you’re holding your breath a bit more than usual.

 

While milestone moments can seem cliched to focus on, they do often define real junctures, and mine that afternoon certainly did.

 

I had made all sorts of plans, convinced that I needed to map things out in particular ways. Some of those plans would take dramatic turns I could not yet imagine and most assuredly would not have signed up for. Other parts would morph and unfold far more powerfully and beautifully than I could have sketched out on that May afternoon. 

 

Among the many adventures that I was about to embark on: beginning a graduate program in literature and learning “officially” to teach through pedagogy coursework and through the mother of all learning–critical, sometimes painful experience. All of 22 years old and only a handful of months removed from my own college graduation, I would don blazers and heels to feel more authoritative in those Texas university classrooms as a graduate instructor. 

 

My anxiety to underscore my competence (while understandable) belied the potent force behind transformative teaching and learning: generous reciprocity. I needed–and eventually would come to appreciate–a necessary shift in posture, an openness to being shaped, challenged, and strengthened by the community around me (which I could not control or even fully plan for). Balancing an evolving awareness of and gratitude for self and world is no easy matter; indeed, it proves a fragile, precious thing vital to our own development.

 

Early in his stunning, slim volume Let Your Life Speak, Parker Palmer writes:

 

With twenty-one words, carefully chosen and artfully woven, May Sarton evokes the quest for vocation–at least, my quest for vocation–with candor and precision:

 

Now I become myself.

It’s taken time, many years and places.

I have been dissolved and shaken,

Worn other people’s faces…

 

What a long time it can take to become the person one has always been! How often in the process we mask ourselves in faces that are not our own. How much dissolving and shaking of ego we must endure before we discover our deep identity–the true self within every human being that is the seed of authentic vocation.

 

Later in the same chapter, Palmer hints that this process of “authentic” self-discovery is never one of rugged individualism (certain US cultural narratives be damned), but rather something inextricable from the relationships and communal ecosystem surrounding us. We discover and respond to both this sense of self and world, growing and evolving in an always ongoing journey of life-giving reciprocity.

 

I’ve been thinking more about Palmer lately, in part because of some other work I’m involved in and in part because I’m daily reminded of impending graduations. Our soon-to-be alumni are making the rounds to say goodbye, to share life updates, and to tend to the many details that accompany a leavetaking and life “threshold” moment. These graduates have insight into the delicate balance of “self” and “world” in ways I find admirable and inspiring. They are preparing to lead and especially to serve with grace, humility, and honesty.

 

In two days’ time, this Friday, May 9th, at 5pm you have the opportunity to see what I mean. Graduating seniors Kuda Chikonyora, Noemi Vela, and Natalya Reister will speak at Baccalaureate–a ceremony preceding Saturday’s commencement programs and one that literally comes full circle from graduates’ convocation four short years ago. Gathering in the Chapel of the Resurrection, standing before the mosaic of sacred stories pieced together in stunning stained glass, each will offer their own story as they reflect on their time at Valpo and the myriad ways they have been shaped by and come to understand the value of community and service.

 

Kuda heralds this gift as ubuntu, noting the reciprocal showing up and supportive learning animated in robust communities. For Noemi, cultivating one’s self-knowledge and respect engenders honest engagement with the wider world, nurturing boundaries that revitalize relationships. Natalya reflects that ‘service,’ properly understood, is not so much a way of doing as a way of being–something that radiates outward to reinforce in a million small ways what ultimately adds up to both an inheritance and a legacy.

Natalya Reister

Kuda Chikonyora

Noemi Vela

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Would that we all remember and honor these charges from our eloquent student speakers. We discover ourselves and our calling in service–the deep, honest, reciprocal engagement with the community and world around us. It is a gift we imperfectly proffer, and in so doing must also gracefully receive.

 

– Dr. Anna Stewart, Director of the Institute for Leadership and Service

The Institute for Leadership and Service is dedicated to preparing students for lives of leadership and service—lives shaped by a sense of calling, equipped for thoughtful reflection, engaged in the larger world, and responsive to its deepest challenges.