Now, You’re Making Sense!

Ok, so my first blog post was about my frustration and struggle with Spanish.

Well, you should be proud to know that my Spanish has improved. The other day, I was eating dinner with my Mexican friends Cynthia and Angel and asked them if they thought my Spanish had progressed. The reaction I received was similar to if I just asked them if Mexicans like tequila and tacos. Even though I still make mistakes, hearing from a Mexican that my Spanish had improved muchísimo (very much) felt amazing!

My friend Cynthia-a friend who has been very patient with my Spanish!

Although my Spanish is better, what matters in my opinion is that I just don’t care about making mistakes as much as I used to. My inner perfectionist has lost a lot of her power in my life. A stronger sense of confidence has replaced the sweaty palms and feeling of shame when I’m confused. I’ve realized that making mistakes are a necessary part of life.

Additionally, I’ve also realized that if a person cannot handle my mistakes and acts rudely because of my lack of knowledge, then it is within my right to stand up for myself. Also, people like that have no business being in my life. Maybe that’s a rather harsh way but when abroad and learning a language, it is extremely important to seek friends who are will work with you and your struggle with the language. I have been blessed to find friends who are extremely patient and that despite my numerous mistakes, still talk to me and yes, even seek out my friendship!

So, while my Spanish has improved greatly, my attitude has as well. The number of errors and mistakes do not matter. What counts is being confident, classy, charming and always expecting nothing but respect from people. As the great Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent:” Wise words indeed. Stronger Spanish and a stronger sense of self…studying abroad is fantastic.

Saludos!