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New Adventures In LiJiang

A place with unimaginable beauty.

mmexport1446293476642Two words. LiJiang. Who knew a city I had never heard of prior to coming to China, would leave one of the biggest impressions on me during my stay here. This city is encased by a natural beauty that one cannot see while living in the city. 4hrs away by plane, LiJiang was a city that surpassed my imagination. It was a place where the NaXi people (an ethnic Chinese minority) thrived. I was essentially taken to another world where I questioned, whether or not what I was seeing with my eyes was actually real. So wait how did I get here?

In amidst of finding a place to travel to for a short trip, LiJiang was a city that kept coming up, whenever I would ask my Chinese friends of a good destination to go to. My first reaction was, why? What made LiJiang such a special place that I MUST travel to during my stay in China? Well, for one, it has Jade-snow dragon mountain and two, it has Old Town, a place that was older than the discovery of America itself. mmexport1446394631188

Although my trip to LiJiang was extremely short, I was able to travel to a place that took me out of the city bustle. I was able to see some of the bluest waters in the world and visit a well that people had been using since the early 12th century. During my get-away I was able to reflect and realize that we as humans are just a small part of the every growing and diversifying universe. The beauty I saw in Lijiang was something that I am not able to experience in the states and is something I will never forget.

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The Great Escape

” Hey Bree, you want to go to a music festival?” Sure, but where, we’re in China!”

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2 weeks later, there I was, at MIDI music festival. At first, I was reluctant to go because I thought, a music festival in China could not possibly be a real thing however, I decided to give it a try. So there I was with my frien20151001_090853d Nick, as well as some of my friends from England, embarking on trip that would definitely be exciting to say the least. MIDI festival, located in Suzhou, a city about 3 hrs from our school was known for its unmatched beauty but who
would have known that it would also be known for its night life as well. That morning at 8 am, I woke up, got my suitcase that I had packed the previous night and began a trip that would no doubt change my perception of China and its young people.

Fours hours later, thanks to traffic, there I was in Suzhou, China about to enter a music festival. I honestly did not know what to expect. The two words themselves, China and music festival, just did not seem to go together, because in the states, music festivals are known for being free where any type of music could be played where as in China, considering everything is monitored to a certain degree, I thought it was going to be really uniform.

Nonetheless my expectations were completely shattered. There were DJ’s from all over the world who played a variety of different music over the 3 days I was there. The young people at the festival were so open to all types of music from rock to EDM. MIDI was a huge party that everyone was invited to.

During those three days I did not know what day or time it was and honestly did not care. It was fun to just relax with friends and listen to good music with good people. At first I was reluctant to go to a music festival  in China but after going to MIDI, I can definitely say I’m glad I went.20151003_205620

Enlightenment

 

Who knew at mmexport1443334435040the beginning of this study abroad experience that I would be having dinner at a Buddhist nunnery and conversing with Buddhist nuns in English! One week ago, my cohort and I were able to visit one of China’s most famous Buddhist temples, LiYin temple. Thanks to Professor He, a university professor at Zhejiang University of Technology, we were granted special access into a Buddhist monastery and nunnery right outside of the temple. Learning about Buddhism in a classroom and then learning about Buddhism from actual nuns in China was definitely an experience that I will never forget. The nuns were trying to learn English and as my group and I were trying to learn Chinese, it was definitely a language as well as cultural exchange to say the least. They started out by introducing the history of LiYin temple (the temple and its grounds they lived on) and then went on to give us a tour of the place they called home, all of which was done in English. I was definitely impressed that these young women, all of which I believe were not over the age of 35, was okay with just leaving everything they held dear to them and decided to live out the rest of their lives as nuns. Even now, just thinking about this fact makes me think how much both mentally stronger and less attached to material possessions they were, compared to me.

However, these nuns and monks were different than the ones portrayed in Hollywood. Although they did partake in the traditional ceremonies and knew all of the Buddhist hymns, they were really modern. Due to my limited knowledge of nuns and monks, apart from what I had seen in movies and tv shows, I expected them to be completely detached from the modern world, living in monasteries (in remote areas) and basically meditating for 20hrs a day. But to my surprise, they were modern in a sense that all of them had smartphones (mostly iphones) and they even played basketball (which they were really good at by the way), worked out, had art classes and could study English.

This event was hard to put into words just because of how much of an impact it had on me. From the Buddhist religion to just their outlook on life, these women were always so positive and excepted everyone and everything without judgement. You could say that I was “Enlightened”. mmexport1443314061213

Happy One Month Annaversary

As I started to reflect on my past month in China, I started to realize how quickly time flies here. It was both nostalgic and relieving to know that I had “made it.” I was able to survive in China for a month already. Through all the language barriers and cultural differences I am still facing, I feel as though I have somewhat conquered it. Although I still have another 2 1/2 months to go, my confidence has grown while in China. Now, I am
not that ashamed  to speak Chinese to people, afraid that they will hear my American accent.  This short trip, thus far, has taught me that it is okay to mess up. It is okay to pronounce words incorrectly, order the wrong dishes in Chinese and only realize your mistake when the plate of duck head is sitting before you, and it is also okay to tell someone in Chinese “I don’t understand” when you blatantly do not understand. Why? Because that is ultimately how you learn.

This month in China has taught me a lot thus far and I have done so much already. I visited Xian, China’s old ancient capital and was able to bike ride along one of the oldest city walls in China, and visit some really famous warriors as well mmexport1442072702166as travel to Beijing and not only see the notorious Tianmen square but also climb the Great Wall of China, something I had only knew of through elementary school text books. At Zhejiang University, where I currently reside, I have have met alot of people, those of which I would only have had the opportunity to meet, while abroad.  I have met people from all over the world including Mexico, Africa, South Korea, and Europe. Some of which I call friends. 20150910_173901

This short period of time here has really put into perspective what it is like to be an international student in a foreign country. Thus, only increasing my respect for international students on Valpo’s campus, where students do not just stay for one semester, as I am doing here, but for all four years, seemingly away from friends, family and their culture. It did take a while to adjust but when I did everything fell into place. I’m in a country I love, with people I like and going places I could only dream of, all of which I am truly grateful for.

With that being said, I guess I can say “happy one month anniversary” to me and every other student studying abroad. Congratulations we made it!

The Past 48 HRS

Traveling to China was an experience in itself. As I entered the airport terminal the flight attendant announced that the passengers would soon begin to board. First class. Business class. Premium economy and then there I was, my seat number had been called. I then grabbed my carry on, along with my passport in hand and prepared for a journey that would change me for the rest of my life. I didn’t know what to think of the 17 hr. journey, however I did come prepared with countless movies downloa20150824_090503ded on my Ipad as well as an awesome playlist that would keep me grounded as I flew through the skies. 10 hrs of sleep (more or less), 2 movies, and a 2hr playlist later there I was, in Hong Kong. It was not my final destination but rather the first of two stops I had before I would reach Hangzhou. As I landed in Hong Kong a huge sigh of relief came over me as the hard part was now over. I had another 2 ½ hr flight from Hong Kong to Shang Hai but that seemed minuscule compared to the 14 ½ flight that I had dealt with previously.

Everything had gone well, the hardest part of the trip was now over and I was that much closer to Hangzhou. That is, until an error occurred with my groups tickets. Unfortunately we were booked on two separate flights, half of us had a connecting flight as soon as we landed in Hong Kong to board a plane to Shanghai. The other half however, was booked for a flight to Shanghai the next day. Essentially, we were all stuck in this foreign country where English was not the first language and had to figure out what to make of this situation. We had two choices: work with the airline company and try to stay together or we separated and hoped for the best. We chose to stay together and as we did our stay in Hong Kong got longer. We were put up in a hotel, courtesy of the airline company, and that following morning we would all depart from Hong Kong to Shanghai.

Although calling our teacher, calling our travel agency, conversing with the airline company and panicking in our spare time only allowed us to have 4 hrs of sleep, in an actual bed, we knew this trip would be worth it. So, the following morning we arose from our beds, and headed back to the airport we had only been 4hrs previously. Again with tickets and passports in hand, I walked into the now, Hong Kong terminal and awaited for my departure. That is, until the plane got delayed for another hour but nonetheless we made it to Shanghai. From there it would only be a three hour drive from Shanghai to Hangzhou, our final destination but who could have known that a 3hr drive would quickly turn into 6hrs. due to rush hour traffic. By then everyone was both mentally and physically exhausted but there we were, finally standing in front of Zhejiang university, A place we would call home for the next four months and it had been so worth the wait. 2 days later, Chicago–>Hangzhou ETA 48hrs.mmexport1441561321483

Heading Home Tomorrow

This time tomorrow I’ll be flying back to the United States.

Like semesters at Valpo this semester in China seems to have passed in the blink of an eye, yet held a lifetime worth of experiences. (Okay, that’s a bit of an exaggeration.)

I’ve spent the better part of the last two weeks reflecting on my experience here, trying to summarize what I’ve learned and how I’ve grown. I probably won’t fully understand the effect China has had on me for at least another couple months, after I’ve reacclimatized to the States. Although I recognize that culture is a powerful global force, my experiences here have continually reinforced similarities we share all across the globe. Although now I’m trying to tease apart the difference between culture and humanity, as I think I have overly amalgamated the two.

While Christmas trees and other holiday decor remains few and far between, the balmy t-shirt wearing weather is (finally) gone. The cold, grey chill of December should make the transition back to Valpo a bit less harsh.

Classes wound down without much fanfare. My Valpo class’s final was a week ago and we had a short Chinese final on Friday.

Learning Chinese, although daunting at times, was great fun. Even I made rapid progress. This was definitely the way to learn a language: living in among the language/culture, taking an intensive course load and sharing it with a dynamic group of classmates. Maybe someday I’ll return to Chinese for a couple years to gain fluency.

On Wednesday my Chinese class went out to dinner as a send-off party for myself and Professor Pati (who also studied Chinese with my class). We dined at the Vineyard, an American-style sports bar and restaurant. Our three Chinese teachers came along which was really neat. I have greatly appreciated the way the Chinese teachers interact with the international students—they treat us as adults (some of us are) which leads to some very interesting discussions and lots of laughter. (One more hilarious memory was a class where we got distracted translating epic movie phrases from English to Chinese, such as “I’ll be back!” and “You shall not pass!” which sound significantly less intimidating in Chinese.)

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At the Vineyard I spent most of the evening talking about culture and politics with a Ukrainian and Pakistani. The U.S. Senate had just released its damning CIA Torture Report, so I was feeling pretty sick about America’s moral standing. Yet here I was sharing friendly conversation with a student from Pakistan—a nation that has a justifiable reason to despise our government. Now it is hard to know anyone’s true feelings on political matters, but my time in China has definitely reaffirmed the belief that although government and extremist organizations may portray the world as a violent and scary place, most people are much more interesting in being friends holding anger. (At least within the educated demographic.) Also, curiosity seems to be a universal phenomena—we all asked questions about how people think/do/view things in _________ (insert home country).

Overall it was definitely one of my favorite evenings in Hangzhou. (Even if I got into an argument with the other American in the class about U.S. military policy towards Russia. Admittedly I enjoyed the argument.)

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On Thursday I attended my final Big Bang English Club. I’ve been going weekly since September and made many more Chinese friends at it than on campus. I was nicely spoiled, they treated my like a celebrity. Given the approximately 10:1 Chinese to foreigner ratio, the Chinese were very comfortable chatting which I hope gave me a bit of insight into their daily lives and opinions which I lacked living in a dorm (a homestay would’ve been much appreciated, but only so many things can be fit in 4 months).

Hefang Street

Hefang Street

This weekend flew by with packing, an adventure downtown, miscellaneous ‘desk work,’ and good byes to my Chinese friends. Though it wasn’t without something new.

On Saturday as I was walking back to campus from last minute gift-shopping on Hefang Street. I decided to climb a bouldered ridge near West Lake to get back to campus. The bare rocks provided a 270˚ view of the city and ranged from a walking path to a 20’ vertical face I nearly got stuck climbing down the previous week. The boulders were fun to scramble across thanks to the lack of guard rails and other safety restrictions which would surely be in place if this were in the States.

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From the boulders I headed into the forest as darkness was descending. The city was coming alight and plenty of Chinese had gathered on the boulders to enjoy the view. The most beautiful scene unfolded in the forest around us where hundreds of high powered flood lights illuminated the forest. The lights shown up into the leaves almost as if the stars had come down from the sky and settled amongst the trees. While I don’t want to consider the kilowatts needed to light up the hillside I found waling backing to campus through the lit-up woods to be a magical experience.

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West Lake

Goodbye to Chinese friends!

Goodbye to Chinese friends!

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Well I should probably get back to packing and cleaning!

Shanghai

Last weekend our Valpo group visited Shanghai. To say our two and a half day exploration, ‘scratched the surface’ might be a bit of an exaggeration. Shanghai as the biggest city in the world (by some measurements).

I’ve gotten used to being swallowed by cities here, so Shanghai wasn’t a surprise. The hour-long high-speed train ride from Hangzhou to Shanghai never really got made it out to the countryside, we’d zip by an apartment complex at least every few minutes.

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While it was a nice weekend, most of us were feeling windswept by the recent Midterms, Thanksgiving dinner, and the rapid approach of our December departure. So we weren’t quite on our sightseeing game.

Public transport is big in China. And when I say ‘big in China,’ remember that China is already huge. I wonder if one couldn’t measure a slight bit of the earth’s curvature in the train station corridors.

We used Shanghai’s extensive subway system during our stay which I quickly became a fan of. The stations can end up being the size of malls meaning paying attention to the extensive signage is crucial. Stations are everywhere and trains are regular and quick. And if I’m going to be squished (an small downside to public transit) I’d take the subway over Hangzhou’s jerky buses any day.

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A bit of lunch on Friday.

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Downtown Shanghai, near government buildings

Our first stop was the Shanghai History Museum which shared a lot of similarities both in layout and content to the history museum we visited in Xi’an in August. The exhibits are almost exclusively relics (either replicas or originals, it is impossible to tell), accompanied by captions. While the ornate pieces of jade, coins, weapons, jewelry, pottery and clothing are very impressive I always come away wanting more. The exhibits provide no storyline, no explanation of how the artifacts were created, and no ceremonial details.

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I think China (at least the government) is eager to highlight the beauty and craftsmanship in their history. Arguably their approach to history is much the same as their approach to current government—”we will show you all the great things we’ve done but not actually tell you how our government works.”

From the museum we strolled along a broad pedestrian boulevard towards The Bund, a fancy name for the Shanghai waterfront. The strip is a commercial showcase from M&M to Apple to Forever 21 to Omega. Postmodern and classic architectural structure clash behind a smattering of giant blazing billboards. Meanwhile sly street vendors try to interest us in cheapie strap-on “roller skates,” fake Rolexes or ‘massages’—aka, prostitutes.

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I actually visited the waterfront twice the first evening we were in Shanghai. The first time was before dusk so the famous city lights weren’t on—hence the return later that evening. Of course there were throngs of people, but that is almost a given in China, especially Shanghai.

The riverfront had been entirely cemented and I guessed it was high tide (and tidal). Organic flotsam and trash floated along in the grey water while two lanes of ships moved up and down the river. Using the passing 40’ shipping containers on one barge I estimated the largest ships—bulk freighters, were up to 250’ long. The bulk freighters, filled with sand or gravel, travelled upriver with the deck only a few feet above the waterline. It took a few minutes to realize that the big boats heading downstream were the same freighters as those going upstream. But being empty they rose dramatically 15-20’ feet out of the the water almost entirely exposing their bulbous bow, and making them look exponentially larger than their loaded brethren. As an engineer and Alaskan dock worker I found the watercraft particularly interesting.

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Saturday morning we we visited the Yu Garden. Hundreds of years old the garden was made up of primarily water features, craggy rock formations and halls. It was pretty neat.

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The rest of the day was spent exploring various touristy shopping markets. First we explored a crowded market/mall selling everything from jewelry to sportswear to Christmas decorations. We then ventured to the upscale ‘French Quarter,’ we wondered through the maze of alleys passing numerous bars and artsy shops. A much better place for window shopping in my opinion.

That evening I strolled through the neighborhood around our hotel with a few classmates. The streets of Shanghai definitely carry a different vibe than Hangzhou. The sidewalks were much emptier—fewer pedestrians, cyclists, and mopeds. It seems that Shanghai’s extensive subway system has dramatically changed transit patterns from the multi-use streets of Hangzhou. Secondly, in Hangzhou we’ve become accustom to walking in traffic—seriously the number of times I could touch the side of moving cars and buses is almost scary. In Hangzhou the drivers are great, but in Shanghai the vehicles rule the road and one better stay out of their way.

That night a thunderstorm swept through Shanghai providing an mystic touch to the sprawl outside our twelfth floor hotel room.

Sunday morning we were free to do as we pleased. I contemplated going to the east side of the river to explore the newer financial district with the big skyscrapers but instead I opted for a simpler route. I took the elevated train to the Zhongshan Park station. I had no clue what Zhongshan Park was, but I really like greenspaces so I figured it was worth the adventure. It turned out to be a lovely spacious park in a nice part of town. Children played, young couples took wedding photos, elderly gentlemen flew kites, a few countyfair-style rides had a taker or two, and old folks practiced tai-chi in the more secluded sections. I will miss the parks here, they are well maintained, landscaped and often contain a vibrant spectrum of society.

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Travel back to campus ended up being more interesting than we had expected as two of us (including me) got separated from the group at one subway stop. Luckily we had phones and no trouble reaching the train station—except that the other group ended up on the opposite side of the cavernous station so we had to do a bit of extra walking.

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Once we got back to Hangzhou we again split up to take a combo of metro, bus, and taxi back to campus through the rainy rush hour. The metro to taxi was the best option as the bus took forever and taxis were hard to get at the train station.

Thanksgiving

On Thursday our group walked down to West Lake into the gathering dark. Our three months of Hangzhou “experience” was obvious as we sauntered between the once terrifying flurry of mopeds, bikes and pedestrians. We conversed in groups of two or three. Along the north edge of West Lake we came to our destination, the Shangri La Hotel. The imposing entrance and facade would have been suitable to greet a foreign dignitary, but we walked around the side to a nondescript entrance where we were ushered into an expansive dining room.

It was Thanksgiving, although it hardly felt like it: the leaves around had just started turning color, the crush of Christmas & Black Friday ads were absence, and we had just taken midterm exams the week prior.

The meal was satisfying and unanimously declared a success—many of my classmates were particularly appreciative of the “authentic” American dishes—the turkey, gravy and mashed potatoes. Yet pursuing the expansive buffet provided reminders that we weren’t Stateside—particularly the seafood: clams, muscles, oysters, and snails. (None of which I tried.)

And amazingly, (I’m an engineer, but) I’m learning Chinese. I can’t claim to speak or understand conversations yet, but I can form sentences, (abet with a lot of thought) and read over 200 characters. I no longer feel that if I got lost in Hangzhou I’d end up having to do an interpretive dance to communicate. My Chinese class is a blast, we are constantly cracking jokes and laughing at (and with) one another’s mistakes, from the German student who always incorporates baozi (a type of food) into his sentences to the time I misheard a question and responded in Chinese with “America is not beautiful.”

Although my days still hold enough variation to avoid monotony it is rather odd to realize that I have settled into life here, “just in time” to return home in a little over two weeks.

My room faces east, so I enjoy a few hours of sunlight to disperse morning chill. I have noodles and two fried eggs from the cafeteria downstairs every morning. On colder days I get a hot soymilk in between morning classes. Almost everyday I visit a small Halal shop just down the road from north gate for one of my meals. The food is tasty and cheap, with a variety of veggie options while an adorable toddler providing constant entertainment as she dances between the tables. Desert is either ice cream, or a Nutella ‘wrap’ (sorta like a fried crepe). I’ve also gotten in the habit of buying three oranges (although more like tangerines in taste and peel quality) a day and eating them one after another. Long walks have become my go-to activity when I don’t feel like studying or when I need a change of pace. I try to go running/walking on the hill behind campus or shoot some hoops at least every other day. Thursday evenings I got to the ‘Big Bang English Club’ which is often a highlight of the week as I learn lots about Chinese culture and am often asked to reflect even more critically on my own “American” assumptions. And so goes my life in China…

Home for now: The International Student Building

Home for now: The International Student Building

The fall leaves outside my dorm.

The fall leaves outside my dorm.

Big Bang English Club (I’m the tallest one.)

Big Bang English Club (I’m the tallest one.)

Uncertainty and the Unknown

Being a foreigner, particularly an American, presents an interesting dichotomy when it comes to wholly understanding the lives of Hangzhou’s Chinese. On the plus side, most (English-speaking) Chinese I’ve had conversations with are greatly interested in learning about America, this has led to many dinner invitations, an occasional pick-up basketball game and my regular Thursday evening Big Bang English Club. On the flip side, I am an American, which means I’m treated like a celebrity so the belief that Chinese are the friendliest people on the planet is obviously skewed.

Also I didn’t inherit my father’s aggressive curiosity, so I have a long way to go before I am a professional asker-of-questions. While I could obviously learn more if I was more outgoing, my passivity has taken me to some very interesting topics. (Who knew wearing long johns could be such a generational controversy?) A regular at Thursday’s English club, Alan (that’s his English name), has an unparalleled (among the Chinese I’ve met) interest in politics and we’ve ended up debating obscure topics on multiple occasions. While Chinese have a decent recognition of the relationship between money and politics I’ve heard some borderline hilarious assessments of the Fed—the most common being a secret cabal puppeteering Obama and Clinton (though not Bush). This last Thursday we discussed the Free Masons—who I know very little about—except that they don’t control U.S. politics.

Even as my interactions with Chinese continue to add up I find there is more and more I don’t know. Fittingly it has become harder to summarize (or stereotype) Chinese as more and more paradoxes or outliers arise. For instance the topic of homosexuality has been brought up and calming discussed on multiple occasions (who in the US would voluntarily discuss homosexuality in a hostile environment?), yet Chinese society largely retains traditional conservative beliefs on sexuality and virginity. (When I say ‘calmly discussed’ I mean almost yelling—the density of the city means most Chinese never learned to use their ‘inside voices’ when in groups more than five. They can be very loud.) 

The homosexuality topic though might also have something to do with being an American. I’m a magnet for repeated relationship and sex questions. Average American dudes are hit on by Chinese women as though we look like Ryan Reynolds or something. (He’s the most recent attractive dude, right?) It is an ego boost for sure, returning to the States will deflate us back to boring bachelorhood.

I wish we had home-stays while we were here. Back in early October I was lucky enough to spend one night at a Chinese friend’s family home in the countryside. Then again, I saw the physical house and watched the familial interactions but without understanding Chinese I left wanting to know more. Language, though is the critical element to understanding any social environment, hence my attraction to the English clubs.

While my Mandarin skills have progressed at an amazing rate, we’ve still only scratched the surface and I’m years away from conversational or discussing beliefs and values. Even if I had the technical proficiency there is an unspoken cultural language which I may never gain. I notice it even between Valpo and Eugene. When I catch up with high school friends we often exchange fewer words, yet they are loaded with ideas and meaning which simply translate with even my closest of Valpo friends. I wonder if I developed a cultural telepathy in Eugene—for eighteen years.

With a month left in my study abroad I’ve become more uncertain about who the Chinese are—but that’s only because I realize how expansive their lives, traditions, jobs, and relationships are. Maybe study abroad isn’t about gaining knowledge, but instead being humbled by the expansive unexplored cosmos of humanity.

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Lena, myself & Damon at Big Bang English Club

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Big Bang English Club (I think they named it after the American TV show.)

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Learning Rocket Science…err, Chinese…with Speaking Teacher Alex

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The almost surreal simplicity of a bamboo grove near campus.

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Today’s six hour hike south of campus into forested hills and beautiful tea tree fields.

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Terraced tea trees.

Explorations: Cultural & Geographic

Last spring Valpo gave the current study abroad students a series of lectures about the different aspects of the study abroad experience. I remember one particular lecture which reviewed the common pattern of cultural adjustment. Unsurprisingly I didn’t adhere to the typical pattern of adjustment—I skipped “culture shock” completely. Yes, I road a ‘high’ for the first month here—but that was due to the newness and plentiful travel opportunities. Most of October was the simply rhythm of school, though without the crushing academic load of stateside classes and extra curriculars. It wasn’t until this week, possibly prompted by last weekend’s trip to Songyang, that I started to feel a little homesick. (Though I’ve missed the Pacific Northwest while at Valpo, so the feeling is nothing new.)
Browsing NationalGeographic.com and OutsideOnline.com did little alleviate my ache for the wild beauty of the Oregon coast, Holden Village, or Bristol Bay. Luckily my week ended with events that will likely become in retrospect the highlights of my study abroad experience.
On Thursday evenings I have been attending an “English club” in Hangzhou. It usually meets a bar or coffee shop across town where we chat or play games for a few hours. Last week we started with “trust falls” and other summer camp-esque activities. This week’s club was rescheduled due to Halloween, but Damen (one of the organizers) offered to meet me on campus and bring some friends. Damen (like most Chinese) has been incredibly generous, taking me (and a few other American friends) out to dinner on multiple occasions and he even suggested going camping before I leave in December. Damon’s “few friends” actually turned out to be the or so dozen Chinese who regularly attend the English club—so it might as well have been a typical Thursday night.
(A quick aside.)
For my Chinese Civilization class (taught by Professor Pati from Valpo) we are doing a collaborative project (with Chinese students from ZJUT) on Chinese perceptions of the body. One element of the project requires conducting surveys. Back in the United States collecting such information (especially when our questions include topics such as sex and virginity), is as appealing as grade-school door-to-door fundraisers. China though was totally different.
I brought my surveys to Thursday’s English club where the Chinese were more than happy to fill them out, they even asked me if I wanted them to ask others to fill them out also! I shouldn’t have been at all concerned as to whether I was breaching a taboo topic—the “discussion topic” for the evening was the whether or not prostitution should legal.
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If you want to find true difference between the U.S. and China—it is this. A group of friendly acquaintances coming from various backgrounds voluntarily get together to socialize and discuss topics such as sexuality and prostitution. (We talked about homosexuality and gay marriage a few weeks back.) I believe China’s non-participatory government style and lack of a religiously conservative populace has helped foster an environment for open and thoughtful discussions on topics including race, religion, and sexuality.
Caught off guard I took a few moments to form a cohesive response (regarding prostitution). They listened attentively (I was speaking as representative of 300 million Americans) and were impressed and affirmative of my viewpoint. Though they immediately suggested a flaw with my position which required me to further elaborate. I like to believe they were somewhat surprised by my multifaceted response, though I did explain that my view wouldn’t be shared by all Americans. We proceeded to talk about prostitution in China along with examples of a regulated sex industry in places like Nevada, and the Netherlands. I was continually impressed by their thoughtfulness on topics like this one that are taboo in the States. (Although they still hold wacky views such as believing a secret cabal controls Obama (& Clinton), Ebola spread in the U.S., and U.S. involvement in the #OccupyHK protests.)
At one point during our discussion I was asked about my personal experience with one night stands. Unfortunately I couldn’t provide any salacious details on that particular subject. We even talked about how much we (Americans and Chinese) talk about sex.
But that was just one of the many topics we talked about. We also talked about Elon Musk (and his three companies), BYD, OccupyCentral, racism/discrimination, mobile operating systems, cell phone/battery radiation and even Kim Kardashian. Actually the Chinese seem to know far more about Elon Musk and Tesla Motors than the typical bunch of Americans.
I found it enlightening and incredibly fun, I haven’t found such open discussions since my time at Holden (where homogenous political and social beliefs were almost guaranteed).
It is hard not to overstate how friendly, open, and generous the Chinese are… except that I am an American. Foreigners (particularly Americans?) have somewhat celebrity status here, so it is hard to get a intimate understanding of how Chinese actually treat one another because I can only observe their interactions (and without understanding Chinese it is hard to develop a nuanced view).
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Although it is still shorts and t-shirt temperatures here, Hangzhou finally got a few rainy days to end October. On Friday after class I decided to go for a walk up in the woods behind campus. Leaves covered the broken paving stones as I followed the ridge south for almost five miles. The air was pungent and (unusually) clean as low grey clouds swirled around the peaks. As I hiked south the hills spread farther and farther to the east, at some points I might as well have been in the wilderness, thickly forested hills and grey sky was all I could see. Given the gloomy weather few people were out. The occasional building and broken stonework reminded me I wasn’t in a remote mountain range, though for respite from living in a city of million this was best thing possible—an expansive area of untamed hills. Just the ‘wilderness fix’ I was needing. I descended from the ridge along a narrow dirt path through the surreal vertical lines of thousands of bamboo trees. I came out at the back of the Ling Ying Scenic area which contained various temples, shops, hotels, and tea fields. It was dark when four hours later I got back to campus. The crush of traffic and mopeds stood in sharp contrast to the quiet and empty trail I had walked along just hours earlier. It was a wonderful exploration for a west-coasty-weather day. Next time I’ll have to leave earlier so I can go even farther.
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And I’ve saved the best for last—photos!
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One grammatically correct sentence…pretty impressive for a class that couldn’t write five characters just 40 days ago.

At the local MerchantMart...

At the local MerchantMart…

…poorly named chocolate...

…poorly named chocolate…

...salad bar...

…salad bar…

...and turtles! The lady at the sink is cutting up a live turtle…thank goodness I’m vegetarian.

…and turtles! The lady at the sink is cutting up a live turtle…thank goodness I’m vegetarian.

Almost my entire Chinese 1-1 class went to “Grandma’s Kitchen” for dinner on Wednesday to celebrate completing the second exam.

Almost my entire Chinese 1-1 class went to “Grandma’s Kitchen” for dinner on Wednesday to celebrate completing the second exam.

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An American, Pakistani, American (Indian-born), German, French, Bulgarian, and Yemeni walk into… No that isn’t the start a joke.

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